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Qur'an:
"Say: He is Allah,
The One and Only.
Allah, the Eternal, Absolute.
He begets not, nor is He begotten.
And there is none like unto Him."
[Al-Qur’an 112:1-4]

Allah's sklawe Isaa






Examples of the negative relationship between husband and wife 

Most Muslim spouses treat each other as enemies rather than friends. My husband feels that he is the boss and that they should respect everything he says. My wife feels that she has to "squeeze" all you can from your husband. Some wives never show that they are satisfied with what he done, or buy them, with the intention to encourage them to work and buy more. They make it feel unsuccessful if they do not afford a life of their friends or family have. Some husbands are very strict pay their wives, humiliate them or even abuse. Women have the right to vote or the right to their opinion. 

What Allah orders the marriage? 
It is very sad that this relationship, which Allah established for the benefit of, made a source of bickering, the lies, deception, oppression, humiliation and abuse. This is not the image that should reflect the marriage. 
Allah He described a marriage in a completely different way in the Qur'an: "He ... for you from yourselves, it creates a woman to be in tranquility with them, and between you love and compassion ..." (Qur'an 30:2 1) 

Do not be a tyrant! 
Regardless of whether Islam is or is not a man appointed head of the household, Muslims are not supposed to be dictators and tyrants. They taught us to treat their wives in the best way. Prophet Muhammad s.a.v.s. said: "The best of you in faith are those who have the best behavior, and the best are the ones who are best to their women." (Tirmidhi) 

Be partners in decision-making process 
Follow the principle of "sure" and make decisions as a family. If decisions are not namjetnute, you'll have far more harmony, and everyone will feel that he had a stake in this process. 

Never be violent 

Never abuse your spouse emotionally, mentally or physically. Prophet s.a.v.s. never abused their wives. He said: "How can they just beat their wives by day and night to sleep with them?" 

Be careful with words 
Show your feelings to his spouse or partner. Well be careful what you say when you're upset. Sometimes you say something you would never say that you are angry. If you are angry, wait until you calm down before continuing the conversation. 

Show your feelings 
Show your feelings to your spouse. Be careful, gentle and loving. 
Be a friend of his spouse 
Show interest in the life of his spouse. Very often we happen to live in the same house, and we do not know anything about each other's lives. It would be good if the husband and wife could do something together. We could perhaps take care of orphans in their home or keep an Islamic school on weekends. 

Show your pleasure 

Show that you appreciate what your spouse works for the family. Never let your husband feels like not doing enough for the family or you are not satisfied with his work or effort, unless he is really lazy or do not even tries to earn for the family. 
Prophet s.a.v.s. said: "On the Day of Judgement God will not look at a woman who has been ungrateful to her husband." Show your wife that you appreciate. If she takes care of the house and kids, do not underestimate. It is hard work, and nobody is glad to feel that his work and effort is not appreciated. 

Joint working at home 
It is known that the Prophet s.a.v. helping their wives at home. If the Prophet s.a.v.s. it could do, should and modern Muslim husbands to be. 

Communication is important 
Communication, communication, communication. This is an important word in counseling. And it should be. Husbands and wives need to talk to each other. Better to deal with problems in a timely and honest than let them pile up until an explosion occurs. 
Point cook or a dishwasher, was the wife or husband that you appreciate his or her efforts. Prophet s.a.v.s. never kudi food in front of him. 

Forget about the earlier problems 
Do not mention earlier if problems are solved one. 
Live a simple life 
Do not be jealous of those who seem to lead a more comfortable life than you and your family. "Rizk" (supply) of Allah To achieve personal satisfaction, a hint to those around him who have less than you, and not to those who have more. Give thanks to Allah the benefits in your life. 

Allow your spouse the time for him / herself 
If your spouse does not want to be with you all the time, it does not mean that he or she does not like. People need time for themselves, for various reasons. 
Sometimes they want to read, to think about their problems, or, simply, leave. Do not do something that will give them the idea to make a sin. 

Admit your mistakes 
When you make a mistake, admit it. When your spouse makes a mistake, forgive him. If possible, do not ever go to sleep angry with each other. 

The physical relationship is important 
Be available to your spouse sexually, and do not let your sexual relationship characterizing selfish. Prophet s.a.v.s. He said: "It's not nice to his wife on the Roll as an animal, you must first send a message of love." 

Dine together 
Try to dine together as a family, whenever you're able. 

Be careful with the topics they discuss 
Never talk to others about something about your marriage and you nor your spouse would not want to, unless there is a legitimate Islamic reason for it. Some husbands and wives, believe it or not, others complain about the physical appearance of his spouse. This is a recipe for failure. Information about your intimate relationships must be kept to two of you. Many of us are treating the spouses in a way that would not ophodili to someone else. With others, we try to be polite, attentive and patient. With their spouses do not practice such courtesies. Of course, with their spouses are in the worst of times, when we are tired, frustrated, and after a hard day. After a bad day at work, husbands usually come home angry and on the verge of patience. The woman is probably also had a difficult day with the children and housework. Husbands and wives should discuss these potential "bombs" so that if you get angry with each other in these periods, understand, instead of immediately think how to spouse does not like. 

A good marriage requires ... 
Patience, kindness, humility, love, understanding, forgiveness and steady effort. If you follow these principles, it should help anyone married to improve it. The essence of these principles can be summarized in one sentence: Always behave toward their spouse as you would like it to be treated by you. If you follow this rule, your marriage will have more chance of success. If you discard this rule, failure awaits around the corner. 

Allah's sklawe Isa